The Dance of Anger

A Womans Guide to Changing the Pattern of Intimate Relationships

Harriet Lerner Ph.D

Ill be honest I resent the gendering of this book and its theories because its clearly applicable to both men and women. That said, it is a very good book about the rhythms, patterns, cycles and “dance steps” we fall into and how to break those patterns – to step out of the dance- and to regain control